How to Compliment a Girl Without Being Creepy

There are numerous self-announced specialists out there who will ask you to suck it up and approach a hundred ladies. In any case, the same number of us know, it’s less demanding said than done. Drawing closer a young lady, overlook complimenting her, takes more than simply internal bravery; you require a decent opening line too. At first glance, compliments can show up non-debilitating to those making them in any case. Be that as it may, for the individual accepting them, it can be an alternate story out and out.

Some guys believe that a particular comment sounds incredible in their heads. And if they are spoken out loud, an innocent situation can go horribly wrong in a matter of seconds. With all these hassles along the way in order to woo or impress a girl, there has to be some way to figure out how a compliment should be given. Well, of course, there is. As you read the rest of the article, you will find 7 different scenarios (and a bonus!) that will help you understand when and how to compliment a girl without being awkward or creepy.

Giving a Compliment is not Rocket Science
Everyone deserves to hear compliments, but that doesn’t mean the receiver of the said compliment has to fall head over heals for the one delivering them. It can just be a comment about something a guy notices in a girl, and wishes to acknowledge them. On the flip side, if you are trying to score some points with a girl, clever compliments are definitely the way to go, buddy.

SCENARIO 1

Creepy – Have too many drinks, stare at her, and then say, “I love your womanly curves.” *wink*

Valiant – Make playful eye contact for 15 – 20 minutes, then walk up to her and say, “You are absolutely gorgeous and I’m guessing that’s the least interesting thing about you.”
Approaching women is tough, especially in situations where you can’t always walk up to her and strike a meaningful conversation. Parties are an effective social setting that provide you with ample opportunities to meet women and just hangout. So, if you want to establish a healthy chemistry with her, remember that you can flirt with her in a nonthreatening manner. And, our example of a valiant compliment surely gets the message across. You want her to feel comfortable with you while approaching her out of the blue, and basically expecting a positive response.

SCENARIO 2

Creepy – Sit across from her in a meeting, and later walk up to her to say, “Your eyes are mesmerizing.”

Valiant – Say, “You have a freckle on your nose. Did you know that? It’s really cute.”
It’s not always the exact words or a compliment that decides whether you’re being creepy or not. In fact, not many men realize that it’s a situation and how you choose to state the comment matters as well. Working in the same department or organization gives you ample opportunities to strike up ‘normal’ conversation topics. You bump into her outside the elevator, at an office party, a meeting, or perhaps a project; all these scenarios can be used to get to know her well and not feel that you’re unnecessarily coming on to her.

SCENARIO 3

Creepy – Don’t take this the wrong way, but you look better without makeup.

Valiant – Invite her to a study session and confess, “You haven’t worn makeup all week? You are gorgeous!”
The first comment is not just awkward to hear, but sounds insulting as well. The moment you say “don’t get offended” or “don’t mind me saying this”, it drives us straight to how-can-he-say-this-to-me-I-have-to-defend-myself mode. A girl knows where she’s strong along with the flaws. Don’t always resort to saying that she’s beautiful; she knows that, most of the time. Transfer your attention to things like the hundred little things she does because she’s a kindhearted person, or about her how well she paints/sings/dances. The main point is to notice things in her and making them apparent to her that you have in fact noticed them. So, even if you do stick to saying something nice about her dress, it comes out in a genuine manner.

SCENARIO 4

Creepy – Utter something like this: “I wonder why (friend’s name) never introduced us before? We’d look great together.”

Valiant – Be genuine and say, “You’ve got very loyal friends, you must be good company.”
Talking to a friend’s friend can be tricky. So, the first lesson will definitely be not to be overly self-confident; that’s never an ideal way to make someone else feel better about themselves. A compliment should be concentrated on the other person and not on you. But if you do want to include yourself in there somewhere, reveal something personal, yet relevant to the topic, from your life into the conversation. And the second lesson will be to hangout with her in a group until she feels comfortable with you without the others. The more she sees you being yourself, open and friendly towards her and others, your compliments will be well-received.

SCENARIO 5

Creepy – Working on something together? Never say, “Wow, you’re smart for a girl.”

Valiant – Use this line instead. “I like the way your mind works.”
She’s your friend. Surely you can do better than that. You have the inside advantage of truly knowing who, what, and how she is on the inside. Being someone’s friend means having an inside route to their life experiences; and that’s where you need to draw the inspiration from. A boy and a girl can be friends, but when you utilize the right words, there are chances of being something more than just friends. Plus, looking at the brighter side of this ‘friend’ deal, you can use your honest compliments to tell her that you’d perhaps want to move out of the friend zone once and for all.

SCENARIO 6

Creepy – She hands you the drink and you reply, “Too bad this coffee won’t get me drunk. I’d be all over you by now.”

Valiant – Go with, “I was hoping you’d be the one to make my drink. It’s exactly the way I like it.”
You realize that she’s getting paid to be nice to you? Perhaps she greets everyone nicely, or makes doodles on the cup sleeves for other customers as well. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t become a ‘special’ customer who comes in for a cup of coffee. If she’s not attending another customer, strike a conversation with her and talk about something other than her current work; share your stories. Slowly start non-order conversations and compliment her about her work, school, or any other topics she discusses with you. When you derive compliments from previous conversations, she’ll know you were listening and not pretending. Plus, you’ll get major, major points for the feat.

SCENARIO 7

Creepy – Be uber weird and say, “I don’t have a library card on me, or I’d check you out right now.”

Valiant – While you’re standing across from her, say, “I bet your smile brightens everyone’s day, just as it made mine.”
This example may not work on everyone. Better yet, the bravest of all moves here would be to give her your number (along with a good opening line) and hope for the best. Technically, you have nothing to lose. If she doesn’t call you, you may not see her again, ever. But if your compliment strikes a cord, then hooray! Another way to get her attention is by making suggestive eye contact and giving her a non-threatening smile. If, and that’s a big ‘if’, people, she gives you a positive response, swoop in with your dashing smile and a sweet compliment.
And, if all else fails … try this instead.

Some men, perhaps unknowingly (fingers crossed), give insults wrapped in what they think are compliments. For example, saying things like …

1. I like how you don’t obsess with the way you look.
2. You look beautiful with straight hair.
3. You have a pretty face.
4. Have you lost weight?
5. You look so great today.

No, no. Please, to whomsoever god you may believe in, don’t ever say such things to a girl thinking it’s a compliment in any way.

How to Talk About With a Girl

These days, it has gotten to be less demanding to meet individuals online when contrasted with meeting them face to face, particularly with regards to the inverse sex. Many people get threatened by the entire thought of starting a discussion, particularly with young ladies.

Did You Know?
According to a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, in the United States, almost one-third of the couples who are married have met online. And, they are also likely to have a more long-lasting, satisfying, and happy union, as compared to the rest of the couples.

There is a reason why half of the girls out there don’t accept the chats, friendship requests, pokes, blah, blah, blah, of people they don’t know. It’s not that they act prissy or want you to get the moon and stars for them. It’s just that they have probably met zillions of guys who have approached them online and ended up being these desperate perverts who spoke, thought, and did everything they were not supposed to do. So, yes, if your approach is refreshingly genuine and polite, there is no reason why the girl wouldn’t reciprocate in a friendly manner (unless she’s actually acting prissy).

Before we begin, understand that there are different types of reasons why you would want to approach a girl online. Maybe because she’s really hot and you want to try your luck reaching her bedroom. Or, she seems nice, you’ve read her profile information, and you think that you guys will get along quite well, hence, you wish to know her better. This article is for the second group. For guys who belong to the first one, we (don’t) apologize.
How and What to Talk with a Girl Online So That You Don’t Mess it Up!
The world has spoken enough of how women are so difficult to understand! You never know what you might say or do, that would offend them. While this statement is true in its own way, another truth is that like men, women too are in constant search of friends that can bring a sense of refreshment in their lives. Things get difficult for guys because girls tend to put the ball in their court, at least when it comes to initiating everything―conversation, dates, proposals! Worry not, the following tips will help you do your homework just right, before you start interacting with her online. Although your intentions may be of just friendship, you still want to get her to think nice about you, don’t you?

What Would You Talk About?

When you’re clueless about where you’re heading, it is best to take the most of what you have. In this case, you have her profile information. While she may have hidden most of it, you can still go through her “favorites” section―music, movies, books, hobbies―to at least get a remote idea what she’s like. If you two have something in common, make sure that you keep that in mind when initiating a conversation. For example, if she’s into football, you can start with something like, “Hey, you’re one of the very few girls I know who likes football. Couldn’t help but convey that to you. What’s your favorite team?” Or, if she’s a fan of your favorite rock band, you can take that as a conversation starter and give your friendship a start.

Tip: Don’t start your conversation with the usual “Hey” or “What’s up?” It’s boring and old. You want to get a reply, include a commonality in the first thing you say.
Maintain the Gentleman Tone
There is nothing that grabs the attention of a girl like true gentleman demeanor. Yes, it can be reflected even through your chats. Some simple sentences such as, “Do you mind if we introduce ourselves to each other?” or, “I would really like to get to know you since we have so much in common, but I will proceed only if you’re comfortable.” would work wonders. Because you are not forcing the conversation, you are giving her consent equal importance, she is likely to be swayed by your good manners. Even when she doesn’t respond and you don’t want to wait any more, just don’t disappear. Leave her a goodbye message, for example, “I understand talking to strangers can get intimidating. We don’t live among angels now, do we? Anyway, I have to sign off now. Goodbye.” Whether she responds, or she doesn’t, at least you have been the polite gentleman that has left a good impression on her.

Tip: Being a gentleman in no way implies showing off, in fact, if you show off you are going down the drain. And yes, no Bible-sized or one-two word messages please! A line or two would be enough. Nothing more, nothing less.
Think and Talk, But Don’t Think Too Much!

We have seen many cases where guys end up thinking too much and then goof it all up. Remember, you have to show the good side of ‘Yourself’ to the girl. The last thing you want is to never ask her number because you thought too much of how she would turn you down. Or, knowing that she is online, (and that she can see you online) not initiate the chat because she will think you are some weird despot. Invariably, you must maintain a safe balance, but don’t let her smell that you’re playing mind games here by thinking way too much.

Tip: Have a neutral approach during the entire process. Don’t be too excited or unexcited about any conversation with her. Just do your part and see how the cards unfold. Don’t expect to hit a jackpot instantly!
No Pretentious Talks. Talk About the Real You

The last thing you can do to mess it all up is to pretend to be this guy you’re actually not. Don’t you remember that eventually you’ll have to meet her face to face? If you’re not this popular basketball captain in college, it’s cool. If you don’t like reading, it’s fine. If you don’t own a sports car, it’s okay. Just don’t say or do things just to grab her attention. Remember, for whatever reasons you’re getting close to her, the bonding won’t last if you can’t be yourself with her. Be proud to say that you have a thing for comics and toy collection. Talk to her about the things that make you, you. Who knows, your personality may give her the refreshing new breeze that she was looking for till now?

Tip: Remember, you’re talking to a girl. So, you have to do more of the listening. Talk about yourself in details only when she asks you too. Otherwise, just reciprocate along with her. Focus on the listening, in this case, careful ‘reading’ of her interests and the other things she shares with you.

If it Clicks, Talk About Stuff That’s Okay to Talk About!
It either clicks or it doesn’t, it’s as simple as that. In fact, within the first three or four chats you would know where this whole ‘getting to know each other’ thing is headed. If you guys have had enjoyable talks about your common interests―the whether, pets, latest buzz in town―you know that you’ve found yet another like-minded friend. Then, while maintaining the gentleman impression, talk to her like you would to a close and understanding friend. However, ensure that you don’t end up assuming things and end up doing something to offend her feelings.

Tip: Many guys, knowingly or (ahem) unknowingly end up getting vulgar or inappropriate once the girl begins to open up. Nah! Don’t do that. Know where to draw the line unless the girl clearly tells you to not draw one.

The thing you must always keep in mind is―perspective! One thing that easily crops up in online chatting is misunderstanding. From your end what may seem like acting prissy, would be nothing else but genuine issues from her end. For instance, if, after a few chats you wish to ask her number, or perhaps, meet her at some coffee joint, and she refuses, or takes time to reciprocate, don’t show it to her that you are disappointed. Be cool. You don’t want to come off as some desperate dude. Think yourself in her shoes. Give her time, and no matter how she responds, be cool about it. It’s not that your life or death depends upon it. Be chilled out and let things take their toll in their own sweet time. Enjoy the journey!

Tips to Survive Them

Ladies play a few personality amusements with men to stand out enough to be noticed or cherish. They control you as well as adventure you for their own particular intrigue. In the event that you examine their conduct, you will have the capacity to tell when they are enjoying these conspiring mind amusements.

Women go even a step further to defeat men while playing mind games. Many women play mind games because they want to exercise a sense of control in their relationship. Most of the time, such mind games will affect your relationship adversely.

You will be able to cope with these mind games played by your girlfriend in a better way, if you have the knack of identifying them. This Buzzle article intends to help you in understanding the mind games that women play so that you can plan a foolproof strategy to deal with them.

The ‘Waiting’ Game
So, you have finally called her, and she is taking a lifetime to pick up your call. You try to reach her on her cell phone repeatedly, but to no avail. Or you may be waiting for her to pick her up for a date, and she keeps you waiting for hours at a stretch. She does this because she wants you to keep guessing if she is really interested in you. She loves to play the cat and mouse game with you. Observe that after she keeps you waiting, you will start chasing her even more than earlier.

Manipulation
She keeps you waiting because she knows you are dying to be with her.

Surviving the Game
First of all, if she is doing this with you, stop chasing her as if she is the last girl on the planet. Don’t call her if she is not picking your calls. Wait for her to give you a call back. Don’t make her feel that she is the only person who is important to you.

The ‘Sexy Clothes’ Game
You are out on your date, and she purposely comes wearing a stunning outfit which enhances all her curves. This has you ogling at her body. She notices this, gets angry because of it, and says that you are only interested in her body, not her soul. While her intention of wearing such a revealing outfit was to grab all your attention, she reprimands you for acting out of your natural instinct.

Manipulation
She actually wants you to notice her sexy curvaceous body and enjoys seeing you ogling at her.

Surviving the Game
Can’t you see that she has gone to great lengths in wearing an outfit which is bringing out her curves? And she knows exactly how to attract you. Try to ignore her, and do not allow your jaw to drop when you lay your eyes on her. Turn the tables on her by not giving her any kind of attention, and then watch all the fun.

The ‘No Sex’ Game
So, being a hot-blooded male, you expect to get physically intimate with your girlfriend. However, there comes a time when she expects you to give her something in return for sex. This can be an emotional condition, like not going to work, not meeting friends, not watching baseball, or calling a close friend, etc. It can also be a materialistic condition, like taking her out for shopping, ordering something for her on the Internet, or taking her out to the most happening club, etc. And as usual, you have to comply with everything she tells you only because otherwise it will directly result in a ‘no sex’ relationship. Well, if she is using sex as a ruse to have her way, it is high time that you stop letting yourself get manipulated at her hands.

Manipulation
She manipulates you in this way because she knows that you are desperate to get intimate with her and will give anything in return for it.

Surviving the Game
Please don’t become a toy in her hands only to get physically intimate with her. Have some self-respect; don’t just yield to her wants. Tell her that sex is a mutual decision, and you will wait till she is willing and ready for it. Also, tell her that you are really too busy to run errands for her, or you do not have budget at the moment to spend on her. This will just ruin her mind game.

The ‘Handle My Mood Swings’ Game
So, one day while you are taking potshots at her friends, she tells you sternly that you cannot talk to her best friend that way, if you want your relationship. The very next day she has a cat fight with her best friend and comes up with a number of expletives for her. When you keep quiet and don’t say anything about her best friend, she rebukes you for not taking her side or comforting her. Irrespective of the PMS, this will happen most of the time, when your girlfriend will conveniently switch sides according to her mood.

Manipulation
She tries to exploit your good side and likes you to behave according to her mood swings.

Surviving the Game
Unless she tries to use your reactions to her mind games against you, playing along can be a harmless option. However, if she tries to blame you for changing your point of view from time to time, put your foot down, and explain to her that you only do this to make her happy.

The ‘Playing Dumb’ Game
Girls often like to play dumb, because they want you to do their work. Don’t you think, she owns her phone so she knows how to download the infinite number of apps on it? She only gives the task to you because she is either lazy, or she knows you will do anything for her at the drop of a hat. Or she may know how to mow the lawn, but wants you to do it. So, she pretends that she does not know how to go ahead with it. Stop treating your girlfriend like a damsel in distress, if it is totally distressing you.

Manipulation
She knows that you will run to her rescue every time, so she will make you work on things which are meant to be done by her.

Surviving the Game
This is actually a very harmless game unless she is making you run errands for her every day or using you for her benefit. Try to play along until the time you think that her demands have increased with every coming day. Remember, you are not her wish-fulfilling genie. One of the wiser strategies would be involving her in the work and making it a ‘couple activity.’

The ‘Playing Victim’ Game
Tears are the best weapon that women own. Many girlfriends use it every now and then to achieve what they want or to emotionally blackmail you. Not all men give in to this mind game, but if you have a soft heart, you may become a victim easily. Especially, if it is a new relationship, you will do anything and everything under the sun to make your girl stop crying, even if it means skipping work for a day, lending her your precious car, or even deleting friends from your Facebook account because she does not like them. Try ignoring her tears, and she would show you that she is not really ‘the cutest poor thing’ as you had thought earlier.

Manipulation
She uses tears to melt your heart and make you yield to her desires.

Surviving the Game
While sometimes, the tears may be genuine, there will be instances when you will understand that she is clearly playing a mind game with you. You can put it across subtly yet sternly to her that you need to go ahead with what you had planned, and tears will not help. You can also tell her some good things and encourage her to be strong so that she may not feel completely defeated in this mind game.

The ‘We Need to Talk’ Game
This game is really easy to identify. You may be out with your buddies or watching a basketball game on TV. She will interrupt you by calling you up or telling you the most dreaded sentence for boyfriends―”We need to talk.” The conversation may be heading towards, “You don’t find time for me” or “Everything else is important for you other than me.” This means that your plan to watch the game or having a ‘guy time’ with your friends will go for a full toss. Most of the time, these conversations will not delve upon anything important.

Manipulation
She wants to exercise her control on every aspect of your life and wants to be the center of your attention.

Surviving the Game
Try to convince her that you will talk to her after some time when both of you cool down. Tell her that she means a lot to you and you don’t want to say harsh things that you really don’t mean to her in a fit of anger. It will also be good for her to take up this confrontation after sometime when both of you have given it a rational thought. This will allow you the time and space to do what you want as well as make her feel that you are not completely ignoring her.

The ‘Bait’ Game
In this type of game, your girlfriend will bombard you with questions, like “Is this hairstyle suiting me?”, “Am I looking fat?”, “How am I looking in this dress?”, etc. The problem is that if you say, “No, it is looking wonderful on you” or “No, you never look fat”, your girlfriend will infer that you are just not interested in the way she looks. However, you will also face the music if you give your honest opinion and go against the nature of your compliment-fishing girlfriend.

Manipulation

She tries to pick up a fight with you so that you will be sorry that you have hurt her by your words or even by remaining silent.

Surviving the Game
The best way to survive this game is simply by saying sentences of flattery like, “You know you are the most beautiful girl for me” or “You are not too skinny or fat, you are just perfect.” Trust me, a little diplomacy will not only make you survive this game, but also win it.

The ‘Flirt with Others’ Game
If your pretty girlfriend tries to flirt with other men, then she is probably sending out signals to you that you should know what kind of an attractive girlfriend you have. She does this to make you fall madly in love with her. Also, she quite enjoys seeing you puffing fire through your nose out of jealously. She flirts so that you know she is an extremely beautiful girl who is sexually attractive for other men.

Manipulation
She wants you to know that she has the power to attract other men as well.

Surviving the Game
Ignore her while she flirts with others. If you show her that you are jealous, she will only increase her efforts in making you feel insecure. Try to tell her that you don’t get jealous because you have faith in her, and you know that she will never cheat you. This can really change her approach, and she may stop flirting completely.

The ‘Expensive Date’ Game
Is she practically treating you like her credit card? Whether it is new clothes for her or a salon time for her pet pooch, does she make you shell out your hard-earned money for everything? If she takes you to expensive clubs, restaurants, shopping centers, cafés, and makes you pay the bill, she is monetarily manipulating you. This is because she knows that you want to get physically intimate with her and won’t be able to do it unless you listen to her each and every whim.

Manipulation

She will make you ‘pay’ because she knows that you really want to be with her.

Surviving the Game

Try doing this―take her to the expensive restaurant she always wanted to visit, and when the bill arrives, act as if you have forgotten your wallet at home. She will have no choice but to pay for it. This will also indicate to her that you are completely aware of her mind games.

The ‘Silent Treatment’ Game

Now, this one is a classic. Sometimes, when you are out on a date, your girlfriend will just go quiet. You will try to recollect all your actions and words which would have ‘hurt’ her and resulted in this silent treatment. You keep on prodding her with the question, “What have I done?” but she remains silent and expects you to give her the answer. If you delay in realizing how you have irked her, it will only add to her anger.

Manipulation
She does this so that you will keep on wondering what is it that you have done wrong.

Surviving the Game
Stop asking her if you have done anything to chide her. Just remain calm as if nothing has happened. Tell her that she can take her time to cool down, and you will wait for her to have a conversation. This will be an unexpected reaction to her mind game, and sooner or later, she will break her silence to let you know what went wrong.

Apart from these, there are several other mind games that women play on men like the ‘comparison’ game, the ‘ultimatum’ game, the ‘mind reading’ game, the ‘reverse psychology’ game, the ‘selfish’ game, etc. Now that you are completely aware about the mind games women play in relationships, recognize them easily, and don’t forget to plan a strategic counterattack.

Tips for Men Will Simply Blow Your Mind

It’s Friday and tomorrow is your huge date with the young lady you’ve been loving for at some point. In any case, you are anxious and don’t need sweat spilling down your face while conversing with her. Here are a few tips to ensure your date goes well.

Are you looking for a great idea for a date? And are not sure about the place, what to do and what to say to her? Well, in that case, you will be relieved to know that you are not the only man who has his tongue twisted on what to do on a date. Most men find it hard to get a date in this busy world, and then to arrange it so as to have a great time, is a task in itself. Creating a good impression will help you get the second chance with her. Here are a few tips.

Choose the Best Ambiance

“You know what adds to the beauty of this place?…. You!”
Great love stories need great backdrops. Your lady will be impressed if you take care of this part of your date. Choose the best place where you two can sit comfortably and chat. Prefer quieter places. Best doesn’t mean expensive restaurants, it can be a simple round-the-corner cafe. But it should give you the much-needed privacy. If you are creative, then go ahead and create the ambiance. You can invite some musicians, spread a carpet of petals or book the entire hotel and decorate it.

Present Yourself Well

“It’s awesome… with you I can be myself”
You don’t have to wear a tux, but it is important that your clothes are clean and odor free. Shave, have a haircut (if needed) and shower please. Remember no belching (or anything that will embarrass you), and no the food was good is not an excuse for it. And yes, don’t forget the perfume. Women are attracted to men who smell good!

Don’t Forget the Gifts

“Love above everything else is the only gift that I can give you..”
While going for a date, you should take a present for her. Girls love gifts more than anything. And if it’s a surprise, your score by the end of the date will increase by few extra points! Flowers, chocolates, soft toys, some goodies, etc., are a few good gifting options if the date is the first one. In case you know her well, then you can gift her favorite perfume, book, etc. All this will make your date like you even more. Also, arranging for some good romantic music will add to the cause.

Break the Ice

“We have lots of things in common … that’s a great sign!”
You need some good topics to start with. Read! Yes, as silly as it may sound, you must read the paper and learn about the latest occurrences in your city. It gives you some topics to talk about. But avoid discussing topics where you are aware that she might not have much to say. This will only project you as someone who brags about his knowledge.Give her the chance to share her views as well. Also remember that she might be judging you, and good conversational skills is definitely an advantage.

Keep it Light

“Today I caught myself smiling for no reason, and I realized I was thinking about you!”
If humor does not come to you naturally, then it is a good idea to rehearse some funny stories.It might sound lame, but if you come across as someone who has a great sense of humor, you are mostly going to get that second date. It is not a good idea to crack a joke on some of her habits, it will only annoy her. Clean humor is always welcome and women surely like men who make them laugh.

Shower Her with Compliments

“I had heard that ‘beauty with brains’ existed. But never thought it was true, until I met you”
Girls love compliments! Compliment her about her choice of dress, her hairstyle, her smile or you can simply compliment her for her looks. Let it come naturally. The girl will know it if you are trying to bluff. In case you are not impressed with the dress, you can compliment her for the effort. After all, she has made all efforts for you! But do not overdo it. It may appear fake!

Let the Eyes Do the Talking

“If love is a language of the eyes, my eyes speak volumes.”
Your love for your date will be clearly seen in your eyes. So, let her read them. Even if you are unable to express your feelings during the date, your eyes will do the talking. Sometimes, silence is indeed golden. It will give a chance to both of you to feel your love for each other without the need of expressing them.

Give Her the Limelight

“You have touched my heart in a way no one did!”
We all love to talk about ourselves and women love it even more (trust me, I know). So let the conversation steer around the woman and her interests and life. You can talk about yourself on the next date.

Be Attentive

“The way you are filing in my sentences… it feels like we know each other since ages.”
Yes yes you may have heard this a dozen times, but it still doesn’t hurt to hear it again does it. Listen to what the woman is saying and make sure you come across as someone who is a great listener. Imagine how put off she will be if she asks you your opinion and you have no idea what she was talking about.

Be Friendly

“I am lucky to have met a wonderful person like you.”
Don’t start complaining about you being reserved and nervous. It’s just not going to cut it if both of you are going to be reserved and no one does the talking. Be friendly, make her comfortable and watch her growing closer to you (in some cases literally).

Don’t Say a Plain Goodbye

“I wish… this moment lasted forever.”
The other important point to keep in mind is never end your date abruptly. Even if you are done with the dinner and everything that is planned, keep something for those last moments. Girls don’t like plain good-byes. You could create the best last impression by saying something really special. Or you could just compliment her one more time. By doing so maybe, you could end up receiving some compliments for yourself too or may be a kiss as well!

Moves to Avoid
›› Commenting on the attire.
›› Ordering food without consulting her.
›› Talking about your ex.
›› Asking your date to share the bill.
›› Ask her to get herself home.
›› Eying the beautiful lady sitting on the adjacent table. (No matter how beautiful she is!).
›› Eating too much onion or garlic.

The Perfect Date
As I have mentioned earlier, good backgrounds always work in your favor. Perfect places will give you the much-needed privacy. Here are a few ideas that are less clichéd.

Take Her to a Play:

Going together for a movie is a thing of the past. Instead you can plan to take her to a play. They are live and some moments are spontaneously created. The idea is more classy. You can have some good chat with her while watching the play. The best part is, not all plays are houseful, so your privacy is maintained. You can have a dance with her when the music is played. The date can end with a dinner. By the end of it, you will have nothing but good memories.

Have a Homemade Dinner:

How about a dinner…but at your place. You can cook for her and play the host. The dishes can be simple. The whole idea is to spend some quality time together. Keep the entire setting simple. Light music in the background will add to the romance. The best part of the dinner will be that there will be no distractions. It will be just the two of you!
Planning the date always helps. But try to do something spontaneous that will surprise your girl. Remember, dates are always special. There are many moments that will stay with you for the rest of your life. Go ahead, create memories.