Girl Likes You Over Text Tips

What does that *wink* mean? Does it imply that she prefers you? Alternately is it simply one more emoticon she utilized? Likewise, she doesn’t only “LOL” for the jokes that you send her, she does that charming “hehehe” or ‘chuckle’. Does that mean she’s into you? All things considered, you’re unquestionably at the forefront of her thoughts sir.

That’s right! If she laughs at your silly jokes, playfully tells you, “You’re funny!”, thinks your silly anecdotes are hilarious, you’ve won half the battle my friend. Rest assured that she is into you and thinks you are cute.

So, you can tell that she enjoys your company if you ‘see’ her laughing at your jokes. But what happens when you fail to make out what her reaction is? Does her face light up when you text her? And, in turn, does your phone light up with an immediate reply from her? Yes?

Oh boy, she does like you!

For the boys, an extra ‘y’ in heyy will go completely unnoticed, or will be shrugged off as a typo, but when a girl does that, she means more than just to say hey. I know, it is a task to discover the hidden meaning behind every emoticon she sends, or the ellipsis at the end of a sentence. But if she lights up your world and makes you want to sing louder than thunder, she is worth all the trouble, right? And after all, Oscar Wilde, who said, “Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood”, was the only person who really ever ‘understood’ women. Yes, you are no Oscar Wilde, and no, we do not have Mr. Wilde to help you out here. What we do have for you is a list of signs that will analyze her texting style and tell you if she likes you.

She teases you…

A girl would only mock or playfully tease someone whom she is extremely fond of and comfortable with. If she teases you about the spelling mistakes you accidentally make while texting, or your funny nickname that your friends gave you, or how you overslept and had to take it from your mom, it shows that she hangs on to every little detail about you.

She asks a lot of questions …

You texted her saying that you have football practice the next morning. ‘How do you feel about football? How many goals are you going to shoot? How did you develop interest in football? Who is your favorite football player?’ Do these questions and more follow? If yes, she is trying to share your interests and create common ground for conversation. She definitely wants to get to know you better.

She initiates conversations …

If she is the one who strikes up a chat more than often, think no more. If a girl likes you, she will send you texts that are sure to start a conversation between you two. Girls do very less of initiation, for fear of coming across as needy or too obvious. If she does it with you, and does it quite often, she sure likes you a lot.

She uses a lot of smileys/emoticons …

Bland text messages, with one word responses are a warning sign, and you should get out of her way ASAP. On the other hand, when she uses emoticons, she wants to make sure you know how she actually reacts. This shows that she has taken the extra effort of telling you that she is excited, or angry, or happy, or sad. An animated conversation dotted with emoticons is a definite pass. She is totally smitten by you!

She responds immediately …

How long do you need to wait after you text her? A few seconds? A few split seconds? You don’t need to wait at all? Rejoice with happiness! An immediate response or a quick reply is a sign that means you are important to her, and that she wouldn’t dream of keeping you waiting. If she is caught up in something, and does not have the time to continue texting, she will let you know that she is busy, and that she will revert as soon as possible.

The content in her messages is personal …

Where did she shop from? What was the flavor of the ice cream she had this afternoon? Why is she upset? Who made her laugh today? -Do her texts tell you about all this and more? She not only likes you, she trusts you. Girls are big on trust and are very protective of their secrets and whom they share it with. If she is comfortable discussing a family problem with you, or a tattoo she is contemplating about, it is possible that she more than just likes you.

When and how she says goodbye …

A girl doesn’t like to come across as very obvious with her interest in you by texting for long periods. Though she wants to, she will fight the urge to continue talking to you, just to make it look like there’s more to her life than you. Pay attention to her goodbyes. If they are cheerful, like ‘Bye, I’ll see you soon’ or ‘Gotta go, but I’ll talk to you later’, it subtly hints that she is sorry to end the conversation now, but will pick it up with you later. She likes talking to you!

She uses your name a lot …

“Hey!” and “Hey, Liam!”, the difference is evident, right? Greeting someone by their name instead of just a plain greeting makes it more personal. The vibe of the conversation changes. It shows how excited and genuinely happy she is while talking to you.
She laughs a lot …

If her texts have a lot of emoticons that depict smiles, laughter, and laughing out loud, she definitely likes you. If you find her laughing at the worst jokes you have ever cracked, take a hint: she likes you. So, she blushes when you compliment her beautiful tresses, and smiles when you tell her how great a dancing pair you two would make. These are not even hints, these are sure-shot signs that she is awestruck by you, and is probably waiting for you to make the next move!

It takes skill to be a girl. Your girl is complicated, hard to understand, mysterious, laughs about stupid things, and cries about stupid things. But it is this girl who is the best part of your day. It is she who makes you go crazy with those cute smileys, innocent messages, and sweet replies. Now that you know what that ‘wink’ really means, stop looking for hints, man up, and go make the next move!

Sweet Things to Say to a Girl

images-8Young ladies adore expression. Young men are terrible at doing only that. You may have found the confounding and befuddling conduct examples of young ladies. Regardless of how hard the young men attempt, it’s a simply unimaginable errand to precisely comprehend a young lady, and it’s considerably harder to say the best thing at the opportune time. There are numerous sweet things to say to a young lady. Here are a few thoughts for you.

Since the dawn of time the fairer sex has held a great amount of appeal in the minds of men. What draws us to them is hard to say. Maybe it’s just a primal urge to mate, maybe it’s a magnetic pull of one particular girl’s personality, or maybe it’s something more advanced on a spiritual plane. Scientists and psychologists even claim it has something to do with our attachments to our mothers in the womb. In my opinion, it’s a mysterious combination of all these elements, along with a strange appealing sense of the opposite. They are the ‘Yin’ to our ‘Yang’, the positive to our negative, and the tranquil to our turmoil. The concept of duality is something that is beyond the relevance of this particular page.

I am tying your laces because I don’t want you falling for someone else. – Unknown

Every time you look at the sky just remember that that’s how big my love for you is.
– Samantha Katrina

You are the reason why even at the saddest part of my life, I smile. Even at confusion, I understand. Even in betrayal, I trust. Even in fear of pain, I love.
– Unknown

I love you, and as long as we are together, I have everything I need.
– Uriel Consolo

My love for you is not like rain, which comes and goes away. But its like sky, moves with you all around.
– Raghav Singh
Sometimes your nearness takes my breath away; and all the things I want to say can find no voice. Then, in silence, I can only hope my eyes will speak my heart.
– Robert Sexton

My heart to you is given; do give yours to me; we’ll lock them up together, and throw away the key.
– Frederick Saunders

I want you for always…days, years, and eternities.
– Franz Schubert
Come live in my heart and pay no rent.
– Samuel Lover

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I’d hoped to give you forever.
– Nicholas Sparks

I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
– Roy Croft

My heart is, and always will be, yours.
– Sense and Sensibility
Someday, when I’m awfully low, I will feel a glow just thinking of you, and the way you look tonight.
– My Best Friend’s Wedding

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever.
– The Notebook

I love you. You… you complete me.
– Jerry Maguire
I constantly wonder if you think about me as much as I do about you. -Unknown
I wish you were a coin. So I could keep you safe in my wallet and take you wherever I went. – Unknown

I never believed in reincarnation, but after meeting you, I am sure I must have done something right in my past life. – Unknown

There are times when I feel lonely and vulnerable. At that time, the only self-help I look forward to is calling you and having you by my side. – Unknown
When I look at you, I sort of believe that God is biased, and puts in a bit more effort and time in making some people. – Unknown

Talking to you everyday makes me realize how thankful I should be to have known a person like you. – Unknown

I don’t know what you think of me, but I think about you all the time. – Unknown

I can’t get you off my head because I want you to be there and mesmerize me. – Unknown
Falling in love with you is the first step towards rising in life. – Unknown

When I wake up, I pray to God and thank him for bringing you in my life. – Unknown

You make me feel so special that I am content with everything life has had to offer me. – Unknown

What’s the secret for looking more and more beautiful with each passing day? – Unknown

I will do anything and everything to ensure that you stay happy forever. – Unknown
God answered all my prayers by gifting you to me. – Unknown

When I was growing up, my grandma used to tell me stories about angels. I didn’t know I will end up meeting one myself. – Unknown

Being with you is the only way I could have a full and happy life. You’re the girl of my dreams… and apparently, I’m the man of yours.
– 50 First Dates

If I tell you I love you, can I keep you forever.
– Casper
You are the butter to my bread, you are the breath to my life.
– Julie and Julia

I love that after I spend day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night.
– When Harry Met Sally

I love you, and I will love you until I die, and if there is life after that, I’ll love you then.
– City of Glass
When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth.
– The Intern

I would fly you to the moon and back if you’ll be . . . if you’ll be my baby.
– Savage Garden

You are my heart, my life, my one and only thought.
– Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

Things About Guys That Girls Hate

Both genders wind up wrinkling their eyebrows with regards to their accomplice. There are sure things young ladies detest about folks, some of which are probably going to reveal reality behind each one of those terrible battles, ceaseless tears, and frosty, quiet medications.

Girls are sensitive beings, and a lot of them know what they want even if they’re just teenagers or in their early twenties. Guys need to understand that if they’re in it for the commitment, then it’s going to take a hell lot more than just the occasional phone call or random date night. Girls are at an emotional phase in their lives once they comprehend the idea of a relationship, forming demands and expectations even before you two have completed seeing each other a little over a month.
So why is it that guys can’t seem to catch on with the simple things that girls expect out of them? At least the ones who don’t come off as overbearing or psychotic. If your girl is genuinely in a constant battle to win over a side of you that is the constant propagator when it comes to arguments, then it is time you sat down and looked into things girls hate about guys. Work on it, and she’ll come around to not being so mad at you all the time.
What Women Hate About Men

Girls know what they want, even if it sounds ridiculous to you or too much to ask for (which, let’s face it, isn’t much when it comes to the realistic stuff).

Girls hate it when a guy is not on time for a date, especially if it is an important event. If she is the kind who has a pet peeve for latecomers, then it would be wise to apologize the first couple of instances and actually make an attempt to be on time for future plans.

Girls hate the fact that you keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend/s, because of the common fear that you may have a slip-up (let’s face it, some guys just can’t seem to tame their animal instincts or fend off an ex who makes a move). It isn’t all about jealously, but a sense that something could go wrong.
Meeting your ex alone is a strict no-no, where it would be wise to introduce your girl to your ex-partner so that this past someone is aware of how committed you are to your current girlfriend. Girls also hate it if you lie about being in touch with an ex; if she has nothing to worry about when it comes to you and your ex, then don’t fuel unwanted suspicion by lying. Be honest, and things will work in your favor.

Why don’t you call when you say you will? Or disappear for hours on end? Or cancel when plans are already underway? Unless you have a genuinely great excuse in store, do not be so negligent and oblivious to things that may be small, but are in fact quite important to a girl.

Girls don’t like it when guys put up a wall when it comes to problems they face, often wanting to be alone and keep her out of the loop. Involve her, engage her in your troubles and then request for solitude. It will give her a sense of importance that you confide in her when things take a tumultuous turn in your life, and will help her to understand your need for getting away.

Don’t zone out during an argument or raise your voice. Screaming and getting verbally abusive is not a solution. Behave like two adults and discuss what went wrong and own up to your mistakes if any. If she’s done something wrong, point it out in a way that is inoffensive and nonjudgmental. She will see your side eventually. If she’s ill-tempered and irrational, give her time to cool off before settling the issue that started the fight.

Girls hate it when a guy is over-critical and doesn’t prove to be a support system when needed. Advise her on things that require your advice, gently laying it out on the table if she’s rushing into a big decision.
Guys, be kind to your girls and try to change the things she complains about on a regular basis. It can be frustrating and highly annoying, but you picked her out of the herd right? If she’s special enough to try so hard to please, then these pointers should help you along. Be sure to know what it is you want out of the relationship before ruining it once it picks up the pace.

Things About Girls That Guys Don’t Know

There can be no single handbook (or a whole arrangement of reference book so far as that is concerned!) to comprehend ladies, however there are a few things about them that most men tend to disregard.

Since the dawn of time, many mysteries of the universe have eluded man. The creation of the world, life on Mars, the Bermuda Triangle, the Lost City of Atlantis, are all part of the many secrets that the universe holds close to her bosom. None among them seem to be as much of a mystery as the mind of the fairer sex.

But not all hope is lost. While no Einsteinian breakthrough has been made in this field (even the greatest brains of the world steered well clear of this subject), millions of years of being around arguably the most beautiful creation of God (I’m so getting beat up by my bowling buddies for this!), the code to understanding women has finally been cracked! Wishful thinking, so some might say, but here are a few things that could actually help many of my stranded fellow Martians out there to better understand these almost mystical beauties from Venus.

As difficult as most men find it to believe, women aren’t really complicated beings. Men and women are very much alike, and yet they are worlds apart. We share the same beautiful world, have the same emotions (some stronger than the others), and no matter how much the hardcore patriarchs and the relentless feminists may disagree, we just can’t do without the other. Yes, we would survive just fine without each other, but hey, you might live for scores of years, it’s only the life in those years that really counts…

Clich├ęd as this may sound, the fact still remains that men and women are simply wired differently. So while apples taste great just by themselves, it is the oranges that add the much-needed tang. While women might not understand what all the fussing about ‘horsepower’ is, men can’t for the life of them seem to understand the fascination of women with shoes (of course there are plenty of tech savvy women out there and loads of men who just can’t seem to get over their shoes!). Women are in fact rather simple, and are often ‘under’ understood than misunderstood. This might not be ‘Understanding Women for Dummies’ or ‘The Guide to Women’s Hearts’ (these would surely sell like hotcakes), but here’s a look at some things that most of us know but don’t seem to understand too well.

She likes to be Complimented
“The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.” Women (okay, a lot of women) go through a lot of trouble to deck up. This need not be to catch your eye, but a genuine compliment will go a long way with her. Small things like “You’re looking nice today” (tread carefully though, they might ask you what’s the problem every other day), or even just a smile can do the trick.

Appreciation Always Works

Appreciate her little acts and you will be one happy man. You might not always like the end result but take some time to think about the effort and the intention behind even the small little things that she does. Remember what Oscar Wilde says, “Women have a wonderful instinct about things. They can discover everything except the obvious.” Appreciation is just another way of telling her that you value her. Careful though, you don’t want to go overboard with it and make her feel uncomfortable.

Be all (H)EaRS
Now here’s something that has most of us men running for cover. Women can talk about almost any and everything under the sun. If you are the beau to a pretty lady, you might want to pay close attention to all the things she has to say. Yes, we men may not enjoy listening to what nail colors are in vogue or stuff about the latest winter line of clothing, but when they talk to you, understand that it’s their way of making you a part of their world.

For the more adventurous sorts out there, you could try telling her that fashion and other ‘girly stuff’ don’t really interest you, but you might want to choose your words real carefully or you truly are gonna be done for!

P.S – You might want to soak in all she has to say, as when she asks you for your opinion about something, you don’t want to be the deer caught in the headlights. Trust me it won’t be just the headlights coming your way, she WILL run you over!

Honesty Pays
Men might have their hearts wired to their stomachs, but women have their heart in the right place. Be honest with them always (unless it’s a “Have I put on weight?” question). You don’t ever want to lie to her or be fake in any way. You might also want to remember that there’s a very good reason why they say, “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”, and you definitely don’t want to find that out for yourself.

Be ‘Nice’ to Her
There’s a lot more to being ‘gentlemanly’ than being chivalrous. While holding the door for her or pulling the chair out for her, will undoubtedly get her smiling, you always want to take care to treat her right. Respect her and be nice to her, but don’t patronize her in any way. It’s not about the sweet words you say but the way you behave that matters. She is perfectly capable of handling herself but may be ONCE in a WHILE you could make her feel like ‘she’s the only woman in the world’.

Be Patient with Her
Most, if not all women are very self-conscious (which still doesn’t quite justify the endless hours in getting the perfect look, but hey the end result is totally worth it). Do not deride them of their ‘little’ time with themselves or you are in for a very unpleasant ride! We guys love our gadgets, our bikes, our cars, and can spend endless hours romancing with them. So it would be only fair to let them obsess over things that they like to do.

Be Understanding of Her
Women at times, tend to have their mood swings and may seem like ‘ice princesses’. Be understanding always, give them the space when they need it, and there are gonna be times you need to hold on tight and just not let go (you definitely don’t want to mix up these two scenarios). There are bound to be times when their actions defy all logic and sense of reasoning. Like the great poet Matthew Prior said, “Be to her virtues very kind, Be to her faults a little blind.”

Communicate with Her
Share your thoughts, and feelings with her. As I mentioned earlier, talking means a lot more to women than just gossiping, it is in fact letting you into their world. It’s just a small gesture to show that you care enough to share things with her. Most of us men will sum up our day with ‘Great’ or ‘Okay’, women are known to come up with epic tales about even the fifteen minutes spent at the doc’s clinic! So you might want to learn to frame bigger sentences and use loads of adjectives.

Show Her Affection
ALL women love to be showered with affection. You might want to strike a perfect balance between the miserable Grinch and the overzealous Santa! At times you might need to take your special lady out on a romantic candlelight dinner, and at times just a glance to see if she’s okay will suffice. Always remember, a simple hug goes a long way, and says a lot more than you possibly can with even the fanciest of gifts.

Show Her off
Most women would love to be introduced to your drinking buddies. In fact most guys love to strut around with their ‘love interest’ close at hand (just an immense sense of pride to have the most beautiful woman in town by your side). You might not want them to get too acquainted either ‘cos you surely wouldn’t want her to team up with your buddies to play a prank on you.

Give Her Time
Now this is something that gets most of us sighing. There just doesn’t seem to be enough time! Prioritize your commitments. You don’t want to be at her beck and call all the while nor would you want to text her just before your dinner date saying “Out drinking with the guys. Can’t make it.” (no guy in his right mind would do that – before drinking!). Give her your time and your attention when you are with her. If she understands you and gives you your space, hold on to her and never let go!

See no Evil!
If you are in fact fortunate enough to have that special someone in your life, you don’t ever want to be caught leching at another woman. We all know that beauty is meant to be adored, and she too knows that your eyes are bound to stray every now and then. The important thing here is, wander if you really must but at the end of the day have eyes for your special lady alone. And if you are in fact caught in the act of drooling over some other girl, then God alone save you my friend.

Master Telepathy?
As surprising as this might seem, women talk about almost everything but there’s a lot unsaid that we are just expected to understand. This tends to land most of the guys in quite a predicament. Women undoubtedly are simple beings but men haven’t quite changed a lot since the Stone Age! Most of us men still understand the simple language, “Me hungry. Me want food.”

For women, it means a lot if a guy can understand the things left unsaid. There might be instances where you will just need to judge if a NO means just a no or if it means ‘I need to be persuaded a little.’ No amount of meditation or yoga can help you with this (although divine intervention might just work); you just need to figure it all out somehow and keep your eyes peeled for the subtle (and at times the in-your-face) hints that come your way.

These may get a few to hurl some brickbats my way while with the others I might win some brownie points. The truth mis amigos would still be what the lovely Helen Rowland said, “And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not one of them.”